I may be overly cynical so I am asking opinions on here for a more rounded view.
My ex and I were together 5 years and we split up. Lots of issues on either side. We have a child together so remained friends and recently decided to give things another try 3 years later.
He moved across the country so we are doing things long distance. Saves us rushing back in to picking up where we left off, we can date and get to know each other again, seems like a good thing.
One problem seems to be we have a different idea on how much contact is reasonable. In this day and age with smart phones I would expect a good morning message, a quick chat in the evening and a good night message. We both work so not expecting constant conversation. He on the other hand seems to think 2 texts one day and maybe a quick phone call a couple of days later is enough. He doesn't reply to lots of my messages even if we are having a conversation he will just stop, no good bye or catch you later etc.
Anyway the bit that is making me suspicious is twice now in the last three months he has lost his phone for 2 days at a time. Who loses their phone these days.
He is a typical 29 year old so his phone is often glued to his hand. I suspect he turns it off if he is with someone else and doesn't want me to call him.
There is no reason for me to be suspicious, no cheating in the past, it was his idea to get back together, he talks about us having another child and living together again soon. (I am the one holding these plans up because I don't want too be or have any more children)
I just can't shake the feeling that it is odd to A) just stop conversations mid flow and not acknowledge it the next time we speak.
B) go off grid for 2 days at a time. And 1 day at another time but he didn't say he lost his phone that time.
Am I being ridiculous or would you be suspicious too?