Oooh, sneaky men

[LanguidLobster]

You really have to be careful, don't you?!

I've had someone come onto me quite strongly, luckily I bopped him away yesterday when he tried to hold my hand, after that he mentioned a girlfriend who he'd apparently split up with.

He tried to get in contact with me today then went missing.

It does amuse me a bit and it's definitely not just the domain of men...but what a load of rubbish!! He obviously is with his girlfriend!

Other than that he's a nice person so I'll stay in contact - it was never that way for me anyway - but why on earth do they think they can get away with that?

He does have a girlfriend - OK so I posted this on Thurs night, we went out Fri night and I had expressed intent for him to state outright that he has a girlfriend as I don't like anyone trying to flirt with me when they have a partner so dressed a bit more formally to create distance, then waited for a lull in the conversation then asked about her and he was upfront.

No harm done really, we get on well in a chatting sense and he said he thought he was phoning too much so deleted my number. So no more calls .

Still don't get why people do this, if they're having relationship difficulties they should work on it or split up.

Simply because they can.

@AprilGal I still don't get it - his first responsibility is towards his girlfriend and for all he knew I could have developed feelings towards him.

Like I said no harm done really, my antennae were wriggling a little on Thurs so I was determined to get him to state it on Friday and I did.

Possible Player springs to mind, feeding his ego, low self esteem who knows?

The good thing is your radar was up and you spotted him a mile off! Chances are he is not exclusive with his girlfriend, and she is probably blissfully unaware.

He will catch himself out eventually if he is a Player he would not have given a second thought as to whether you had developed any feelings towards him, it's the thrill of the chase for these chaps.