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One night stand added me on facebook

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shinywinkywhoo · 13/09/2018 22:28

Recently had a one night stand with the sexiest man, we met at a mutual friends party, then decided to leave for drinks together after. Stayed with him the night it was amazing!! He was very affectionate in the morning lot of hugging kissing etc (but didn't try sex again) I was disappointed when he didn't ask for my number but not suprised, however within about half an hour of leaving he had friend requested me on Facebook, we don't have loads of friends in common so he must of actively searched me, we have messaged a few times since and he has been quick to reply and chatty and said how disappointed he was when I had to leave early.. but no mention of meeting again. He lives an hour or so away... any thoughts ladies..?

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sanssherif · 13/09/2018 22:31

Message him then!

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 13/09/2018 22:31

Sounds like he likes you! :)

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shinywinkywhoo · 13/09/2018 22:34

Well we have been messaging back and forth but don't want to start being the one initiating the convo every time. I'm recently single and not looking for anything serious but he is seriously fit and wouldn't mind doing it again 😆

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bestofme21 · 13/09/2018 22:46

Just be patient Wink

He obviously wants a friends with benefits arrangement and will be asking to see you again.

NotTheFordType · 13/09/2018 22:49

Are you up for NSA sex? If so, accept his friend request.
If not, don't.

bella1426 · 13/09/2018 23:12

Four years ago I accepted a Facebook friend request from a sexy one night stand. We're still madly in love and about to have our first child in 4 weeks time 😊 you never know where it may end up!

PussInSandals · 13/09/2018 23:26

One of three things will happen at some point:

  1. He will contact you late in the evening asking what you're up to (i.e a booty call) which means he's looking for a FWB.

  2. He'll ask if you fancy meeting for a drink/dinner at a reasonable hour (i.e a date) which means he's interested in getting to know you.

  3. Every now and again he'll reach out to chat online but won't actually suggest meeting up. This means he's keeping you as an option.

If a man is interested in taking things further, nothing will stop him and he won't need "nudging" to remind him that you exist (e.g by you writing to him first or asking if he wants to meet). Sit back and let him make his move (or not). This is the only way to really know how interested he is.

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shinywinkywhoo · 14/09/2018 08:25

Thanks guys I'm going to sit tight for now x

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YouAlwaysTry · 14/09/2018 09:41

Good plan op Smile

oftoworkigo · 14/09/2018 10:21

Good luck op.

I'm in a similar situation, messaging a lot, suggesting we meet up but not happened yet, just lots of messages back and forth

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