Hi i have 3 young children and a partner who is their dad. Over the last few years things have been getting worse, he talks to me awaful calls me names, useless, fat, lazy and much much more shouts at me. Our sex life is dead and i think thats due to him suffering prem edjac which has resulted in me just being left very frustrated and i dont want sex with him anymore but thats also to do with the way he speaks to me. We are not even friends anymore, he works such long hours so is rarely home.
I was feeling really frustrated and down through lack of connection and joined a married dating site which i know was so wrong. I met up with a guy a few times just for sex, exciting different sex, he wanted to please me and i wanted to please him. This was all it was and nothing more as we were both commited to other people.
Shall i end my relationship with my partner? He doesnt know what i have done, this would hurt him obv.