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WWYD?

3 replies

Bamboo15 · 12/09/2018 05:23

My partner works away and very occasionally stays over night. Most of the time it’s no problem. We have two children and we stay in touch with texts and calls about what they are doing where he’s gone to eat etc.

Twice there has been really odd behaviour. To avoid making it a very long post, the summary is that there have been two occasions where he has been really sheepish and inconsistent about his wareabouts. He is a terrible liar and looks totally caught out when I have called him on some of the things that have happened. The only thing he would hide from me is sleeping with someone else.

My wwyd question is if you were certain that your partner was hiding something, but didn’t any hard evidence of infidelity, wwyd?

There won’t be anything I can find on his phone and traveling to where he is with two kids is out of the question, so I feel stuck in limbo. If he’s cheating I would leave with the kids. If he’s not it would be a huge over reaction to go with no evidence to justify it. WWYD?

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UnicornSparkles1 · 12/09/2018 05:37

What are the inconsistencies? Are they bare-faced lies about where he is/has been, or say a mix up over what time he left the restaurant?

hellsbellsmelons · 12/09/2018 12:49

Do you have access to his phone or ipad?

If you really want to know for sure and have no other way of finding out, could you hire a PI?
Not sure what access to money you have?

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 12/09/2018 15:18

Could you give examples of the occasions?

Woud he confess if you asked him directly? If he's a bad enough liar to make you suspicious anyway you might be able to tell from his reaction.

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