I don't know if anyone has got same problem as me... I feel like I can't do this anymore... here's what happend.
Me and my partner have fell in love 3 years ago, it was such a beautiful time. I felt like I met my soulmate, we had same interest, both riding motorbikes, both loved same things, had crazy sex like every day! We moved in together and were very happy. Then I got pregnant and we both really wanted a baby so we were really happy. Then problems slowly started to show...
During pregnancy my hormones were really crazy, we would argue over stupid things but instead of letting go he would wind me up even more. Our beautiful daughter came into the world and 2 first weeks were really amazing, I thought to myself "wow we are back on track! Feels like old days !"
But then we would disagree on so many things. He would always tell me that if there's anything I don't like I should let him know and we can figure it out, but when I did mention some stuff like please throw your dirty clothes in the washing basket or please don't leave empty packaging from food lying around he would tell me I'm nagging and he can't take this. Now let me tell you that I am up at 6am going bed at 9pm. Between these hours I clean, cook, wash the clothes, iron the clothes, look after our daughter and take care of the puppy which he wanted to get and now.im the one doing everything. He goes to work and comes home at 5. He always says he's tired, he needs to rest, no help with the baby, no help with cleaning, no help with cooking, even if I go to take a bath he always says how long will I be as he has to rest. Sunday's a day off but we don't go out, we don't do anything, we stay at home as he is tired, drinking booze and resting. We have no sex. We maybe sleep with each other once a month and sometimes not even that and he is the one that doesn't want to. (He's not cheating as has either at work or home so no way). When I tried talking to him about why is he or interested in me and that this affects my confidence as I think it's because my body is not the same, he has the cheak to tell Me it's because he can't stand my nagging apparently. Before we used to talk so much and I could tell him everything, but now if I tell him about my hard situation with my parents or try telling him how I feel he says he doesn't wanna hear shitty problems of my family, and every time we argue he will throw everything back in my face. I just don't know what yo do anymore. I don't want my daughter to be without a father but I feel so lonely and miserable and the way he speaks to me makes me hate him....