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Karma stories for leavers/cheaters

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Mamabear29 · 10/09/2018 11:50

Hi ladies ! Need a bit of cheering up, my husband recently left me and our DC for another women, His life seems easy and perfect now !

Would love to hear your stories of Karma catching up to these losers ? Because I’m still waiting for it to catch up to him !

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DoYouLikeBasghetti · 10/09/2018 12:41

His new fling was a lot wiser than me, saw through his crap and dumped him within 6 months. They lived in a small town and he basically pissed EVERYONE off by ripping people off left right and centre (because he didn't have a woman to pay his bills/ mop up his shit).

He was living with his mum and dad, even they chucked him out!

Everyone saw him for the nasty selfish loser he was, and it felt great!!!!

(This was 20 years ago and it still gives me a warm glow to think about it, because he really was horrible and totally deserved it).
GrinGrinGrin

fannycraddock72 · 10/09/2018 12:43

The best karma is to get on with your life and be happy. It’s not all about wanting bad things to happen to him it’s about making good things happen to you.

But I know why you are feeling the way you are. I wanted my ex’s life to fall apart after the lies and betrayal. That feeling fades over time and you enter a state of not caring what happens to cheater pants.

noego · 10/09/2018 13:09

The only karma going on here is the karma you are feeling by giving him headspace. Let go and move on.

The perfect life you think they are projecting is impression management. Ignore it.

NotTheFordType · 10/09/2018 13:14

Hmm. He left and moved in with a woman who is now married to. I mean he was a bit of a dickhead and he stole money from me but at the end of the day he's more cash rich than I am. (Wanker)

Pixikitten0123 · 10/09/2018 16:55

The best karma I have is that after being left for someone 10 years older than me and being accused of being controlling he is actually living with someone who is and will be a pensioner in 10 years time 😂
Me? After a LOT of down and feeling very sorry for myself after having said relationship pushed under my nose through social media, I have eventually decided that the prize she’s won is a liar and a cheater who has given up working and she now has to support - even though I’m getting very little support for the kids, I’m managing just fine! In fact once my divorce is at the final stage I’m off to buy myself a ridiculous fairly new convertible BMW 😂 happy divorce to me from me! 😀 I’m currently enjoying a no strings attached fwb and don’t think I ever want the hassle of another man again! I think that’s great karma 😂

Worrynot1 · 11/09/2018 16:25

She got really fat

isseywithcats · 11/09/2018 17:06

mine left me for someone younger thought she had money as she owned her own house, and lived somewhere posh, (she was having to sell it to complete divorce) turned out (have been told by his daughter) she was a drinker every day who got aggressive , took his car keys to her work so he couldnt go out in his car when she was at work, couldnt cook so he lost out there, (im good Cook) treated his kids badly over her own, so he swapped a nice house, business etc for her

fedupandnogin · 11/09/2018 17:10

Agree it's best to get on with your life and be happy but I know what you mean. My ExH went off with another woman (now married). Since he left his life seems so easy and he doesn't have to put up with all the day to day stuff dealing with children, etc (not that I'm complaining). He sees them for two weekends a month (one night each time) doing the Disney dad stuff without all the grief. And the rest of the time is his own for him and OW to do whatever they want to do!

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Ophelialovescats · 11/09/2018 19:23

He left me for the OW and she took up with another MM after about a year together and then he left her for another.
So Karma served to both ....

SandyY2K · 11/09/2018 19:51

A colleague's story. Her Ex left for an OW half his age.

Years after a hospital ambulance rolls up at her house. Her Ex had a stroke and was being discharged from hospital.

The OW said she was too young to be a carer and gave the Ex wife's address.

Colleague said "he hasn't lived here for X years... you're not bringing him in."

There's karma.

Living well is the revenge.

TeacupTattoo · 11/09/2018 22:01

I have an amazing, kind and loving husband and have been blessed with children and a family. Abusive exH is alone.

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