Advice! Me and ex have split up.

[beccachelsxo]

So, we’ve called it a day. After countless arguing, and him been a lazy pig I’ve ended a shitty relationship. (I’m worth more than someone that has cheated on me more than once) I have a 4 year old from a previous relationship, and 33 weeks pregnant. The house is in his name, and he works so we don’t get any help. I don’t have any family, or friends. What the hell do I do now?! No where to live, no income and 7 weeks until my second baby! I’ve stayed in the relationship for 6 months now because I have no where to go, but my son is picking up on the arguments and it’s not healthy for any of us.

Council?

What do you mean by council?

Could you approach the council as homeless?

you should speak to citizens advice bureau and speak to the council see if they can help u. x

Would I be classed as homeless? He hasn’t asked me to leave? Obviously I need to leave but need to be finically in a position to leave first and 7 weeks left before baby is here I reckon I’m going to find it hard to get a job 😰 All our savings from when I was working have gone on our wedding (due to get married next year) and holiday to Florida in December so I have nothing to put down on a house/ rent. Xx

Contact shelter they can give housing advice.

I’ve literally just found their number on google. Going to call tomorrow morning and contact CAB. Guess I’ve got a lot of planning ahead of me once baby is here, hopefully I get back to work straight away so I can start saving to be able to move faster xx

Get to your local CAB tomorrow if you can, or contact Shelter like a PP suggested.

Would he be willing to write a letter stating he has asked you to leave? He will need to ask you to leave to be able to present to the council as homeless.

If I asked him I’m sure he’d do it. Would that then run the risk of the council placing me wherever they wanted? He’s said he’d like me to go once baby has been born, and I’ve found somewhere so I can stay here until I’ve got sorted but I’ve made it clear the relationship is over. He’s a pig to be in a rela with, but a great Dad role to my son.