We’ve had a bit of a crap time at the min.
I have two dds.
Older Dd got tonsillitis two weeks ago and has got it again this week. (She’s due to have them out but gets very, very poorly bless her)
The baby has had diarrhoea for a week three weeks ago turned out it was a throat infection ( they won’t say tonsillitis yet!) she has also got this again since weds we went to the walk in yesterday and they confirmed and sent us home with meds.
So the reason his is in relationships is: we’ve had no sleep for about a month or so now. Which is just part of parenting. I also returned to a highly stressful job after mat leave. DH ( and he really is normally D) works from home.
Recently though. He’s tired. He’s started throwing things in temper. It shuts me down. I panic and do whatever he needs me to. Things he throws are like my phone or a cup of tea or whatever is in his hand. I think he’s just frustrated.
It scares me Though if I’m honest. Only in the moment and then it’s done and it’s all ok. I haven’t told him this as usually he’s a gentle giant. This isn’t me saying he’s abusive just needing to know how to stop it before it gets worse.
Sorry long post. I just need to know how to handle this without causing myself any trouble.