Fiance and I have been together for 6 years and have always had a good relationship, done a lot together including hobbies and holidays. He didn't have many friends and was very reliant on me whereas I have a large social group and family that he often got involved in. Recently finally after me nagging he got into playing sport again and has made some good friends I was so happy he did this as it relieved some of the pressure off me to always include him.
I feel like he can't juggle friends and a relationship I work a lot of hours and days as does he plus he works away in the week but every weekend he seems to be out of the house without me, even when I have days off he will make other plans without me and I won't see him. First of all I was happy as I got to do some things on my own for a change but lately I've felt lonely as I feel there is now no balance and I'm often on my own! AIBU and selfish to feel like this as I'm the one Who persuaded to him to get friends!? 