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What does it mean....

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IsabellaMoltisantixx · 09/09/2018 10:38

My on/off dp is constantly asking me how many people I've slept with
He does this usually but atm it's been now more than ever
It's every few minutes. I feel like I'm going mad
But I'm worried cos I read this could be a sign he's cheating or is planning to/wants to?? Can this be true? I'm just constantly on edge

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Creeper8 · 09/09/2018 10:39

Maybe he thinks you lied about the amount? Or he/ you slept with someone when you were “off”?

TheFifthKey · 09/09/2018 10:40

Every few minutes? What the hell? That’s seriously messed up. Who cares what it “means” apart from that you don’t have to live like that.

Wadingthroughshit · 09/09/2018 10:41

Every few minutes...bizarre. Does it turn him on thinking of you with other men?

fbsg · 09/09/2018 10:41

Every few minutes?!

It means he’s a dick. Stop the on/off, make it permanently off.

cantstandmenow · 09/09/2018 10:41

He's asking you that every few minutes? Seriously?

Turn that relationship to "off" immediately

Singlenotsingle · 09/09/2018 10:42

It's none of his business! It's none of anyone's business! I doubt it means he's planning to cheat, but it does mean he's looking for a stick to beat you with! Potentially controlling - watch this one - you could be looking at trouble...

headinhands · 09/09/2018 10:45

But I'm worried cos I read this could be a sign he's cheating or is planning to/wants to

To be honest I'm more worried that this is the thing you're worried about. if you've never heard of it google the Freedom Project. I think you'd find it helpful.

IsabellaMoltisantixx · 09/09/2018 10:47

@Wadingthroughshit

I made a separate post not too long ago about him wanting to cuckhold and desperate for it so that could be it also but he's just out the blue started to ask that question these past two days

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TheBeatGoesOnandOn · 09/09/2018 10:51

A kink is great if both parties are into it. If they aren't, the person who likes it either accepts it's not happening or they get a partner who is into it. That's basically the crux of it.

Tell him to stop asking or he's off full stop.

dragonflyflew · 09/09/2018 16:08

He sounds a bit unhinged. Fetish is one thing but this sounds obsessive. Cuckolding fantasies can be a sign of someone with extreme jealousy issues and this constant questioning isn't right.
Be careful.
I'd suggest ending it but carefully and with support.

dragonflyflew · 09/09/2018 16:13

Isabella, I briefly read some of your other threads.
He's actually been talking about bringing strangers in torape you?
He gave you an std?
You have a baby?
Please get rid, he's bad for your mental health. Just focus on you and the baby. You need supportive friends and family
You mentioned a support worker in your cuckold post, what's the support for? Now is time to really get help. No joke x

RabbitsAreTasty · 09/09/2018 16:15

How can he be asking every few minutes? How have you not bitten his head off? Then if he persisted made him leave your house?

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