So i am in a relationship the last 6 months... my partner i do love very much as we have grown closer he is good to me and my son. we spoke online for some time before meeting in March and we do long distances relationship.. he comes to stay at my house once a month could be 1 week or 2 weeks.. i also visited his family home for a week multiple times now.
The thing is he doesnt work.. he never has he has autism and finds it difficult to be in crowded places doesnt work well under pressure.
I also dont work i left work when my son was 1 year old because i had no1 to care for him or mind him while i worked and i couldn't afford or trust anyone else to be honest. He has lots of extra needs. He has autism and other physical disabilities which means he cant walk and is still in nappies, very little speech hes 5 . So i am on carers. Now it seems to be working us going back and forth when we can.. but i just worry for the future... is this realistic for us? I love him a lot but it a little stressful at times :(
We do have future plans like to save up for a year and maybe go on a holiday with my son. He helps me with my home painting and gardening. We watch movies and go for nice walks enjoy cooking together but lately we seem to argue over simple things and we have spent the last 2 weeks together could be to do with that both not working... im just doubting the whole thing now and i care about him and love him very much..
Can i have an outsiders input on this please ? 
please dont be too harsh.