So my partner of 2.5 years seems to have had a change in behaviour just recently.
It started a number of months ago and I'm now questioning whether this is getting to the "emotional abuse" stage.
I can't see family/friends without having calls every 10 minutes checking on where I am or when I'll be home.
I've been asked to not talk to male friends. If they appear anywhere on my phone, he loses his mind.
He flies off the handle if I ask him to do something... especially if I have to ask more than once!!
Just recently he's started name calling and being nasty. I have a condition that makes it hard for me to string sentences together and slows me down cognitively. It's becoming a common reluctance for him to call me "retarded, stupid, slow" etc.
He accuses me of "raising my voice"/talking to him like a "tw*t" when I feel that I'm talking normally to him. Given, this always happens when I'm asking him to do something or I answer his (suspicious type) questions slightly defensively.
He's managed to hack into my Facebook and Instagram many times (I repeatedly have to change my passwords) and says that I've logged in to them on his phone once so that's why it's showing as his phone and he's getting the notifications. I know full well that I haven't logged onto his phone with any of my social media accounts. He's spying.
Honestly, the list of arguments I've been logging is as long as my arm.
I can't cope with it anymore and it's doing my mental health condition no good. But when things are good, they're really good.
I live with this guy and we recently got engaged. I'm due to marry him at the start of next year.
I can afford to live on my own (I pay 100% of our rent) but I rely on him massively because of my physical disability and my mental health.
I don't know what I'm asking here. I suppose I just need some advice and opinions on the situation.