My dear husband and I have been through so much, we have been married for 10 years and in the last 5 years I have been operated on 3 times ( twice for severe endometriosis and last year for cancer). He has really kept the family going and came with me to each chemo session. I finally finished radiotherapy and immunotherapy last month only to told he thinks we should separate and use this chance to find happiness elsewhere as the last 5 years have been so hard. He tells me our son will be better off seeing his parents happy with other people rather than us contining with our conselling and trying to rebuild our lives. He has been withdrawing quite a lot of cash from our account and keep telling me his colleagues were in bad place personally and needed to change family, wife, job etc and that every GP, therapist he sees is telling him to leave. Sorry for the long post, it’s been a long road and I haven’t even had the chance to catch my breath following my treatment. Any thoughts?