I have always been close to my mum, had a great childhood, mum was a really caring person. Last year she re married, I clash with my step dad, he puts me down all the time, argues with everything I say and I often leave early whilst visiting them because he has said something to upset me. He’s racist, sexist, has no respect for women and has sent me sexual innuendos via messenger. Most of my family don’t like him but everyone keeps there mouth shut as they don’t want to upset my mum. He has persuaded my mum to write a will leaving me nothing (everything goes to my DB), my mum seems to be brain washed by him and is turning into a different person. All they both do is slag everyone off including close friends.
Tonight I had an emergency, I always call my mum for advice (even though she probably can’t help), he answered the phone, asked me what I wanted, told him I had just phoned for some advice as I was panicking (water pissing coming through the ceiling, I know I probably could have called someone else but I can’t afford to call a plumber out at 10pm), he basically told me to fuck off and that it wasn’t his problem, then spoke to mum who just agreed with him.
I’m just fed up with being spoken too like I’m shit on his shoe and fed up of my mum agreeing with everything he says.
I wish I could go no contact but obviously I love my mum and I’m worried about her. I can’t beleive she can’t see him for what he is (everyone can see it).