What do I Do?

[Kiam]

Looking for advise on my son's father, it's been 6 weeks with no contact for him to see his son! We had discussed arrangements for him to have access but out of know where it has all stopped. It all started 8 weeks ago when I wouldn't let my LO in a car seat that was too big for him (couldn't understand that it wasn't safe) anyways after that things were fine and all off a sudden everything stopped, do I just leave it be or get in contact to see why this is happening?

You cant make someone be a dad. My kid s havent seen their dad since December. Why chase him? Leave him to it.

No, don't badger him into being a father. Leave it and see what he does, he will show you, one way or another, what kind of man he is.

Leave him to decide if he wants to be a dad or a dick.

Very true, thank you all so much. I just feel so much emotions for my son because I know I'll have all the questions when he is older as of why his dad didnt want to be around.

I had similar with my children's dad and like you, I used to worry about the future and their reaction to him not bothering with them.
I used to tell my kids that their dad was the loser in all of this because they were the most amazing, clever, funny, beautiful people and if he couldn't see that or be bothered to be in their lives then it was his loss...not theirs.
They're all grown up now my kids. Happy, successful and with families of their own.