If you're really close to someone of the opposite sex, how do you ever know if it's 'more' or not? Have you ever been in that situation and what happened?
I just can't tell and want to know without explicitly saying anything as that would make things weird and the friendship means a lot to me so don't want to lose it. He contacts me all the time, we talk most days, and do lots of things together - a catch up at least once a week just us, and usually something on the weekend once every few weeks. We share a lot about our lives, stuff we don't tell other people. He tells me things he says he doesn't usually talk about, and brings up DTD a lot - not in a seedy way, but it comes up in conversation a lot, including asking me in the past about my history etc.
But - never anything physical, never touch. We talk a lot about past relationships, but nothing present. He's pretty forthright when asking women out and he's never made a move or anything.
What are you experiences?