Help!

[PinkLady01]

I went on a date with a guy, it went okay (wasn’t bad but wasn’t feeling anything really). But he insisted on paying for my dinner even when I asked to pay my share. So then when he asked if I wanted to do it again I said yes because I felt awkward! I had every intention of going for a second date but was busy so I said we should do it after this week.

I’ve now been on a date with a guy that I actually really like but I don’t know how to turn down another date with the first one. Help! How do I word it without sounding mean?!

Just text him and tell him you don't think there was any chemistry. You're allowed to change your mind

You offered and he insisted so you don't owe him anything. Another date with him when you're sure he's not the one for you is giving him false hope. Just be straight with him. You had a nice time but didn't feel a spark or whatever.
Good luck with the new guy! Hope it goes well!

You don't owe him anything.

You offered; he insisted.

It's been one date. I would send, "I enjoyed dinner the other evening however I won't be taking this any further. I hope you find what you are looking for".

I have sent messages like this in the past when I was online dating and the only appropriate response is, "no worries. Thanks for letting me know. You too x"

It's one date. He's not in love with you and may well have had another first date in the meantime too.

If he responds with anything other than something similar to that reply, you don't reply and block him immediately.

Just say "I had a lovely time but don't see it going anywhere, but I wish you all the best for the future"

You've met him once.
You really don't owe him anything.
Stop tying yourself up in knots.
Just a quick text. 'Thanks again for dinner but. for me, there was not chemistry. I wish you well in your search.'

Thank you! I texted and said I wasn’t feeling it and he replied with no problem, thanks for being honest phew! New to dating so everything’s a bit scary atm!