Dominatrix contacted my husband!?

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I’m hoping someone can help me figure out why my husband was friended by a dominatrix on Snapchat! We downloaded the app messing about with the kids but as far as I was aware hadn’t used it otherwise, then I spotted his phone come up with a notification for someone I think friending/following him. The person had a memorable name that I didn’t know so I looked it up and was shocked to find it was a local dominatrix!
I guess my question really is how and why would this person friend him? Does it definitely mean he’s chatted to her on Snapchat? Or has he actually met her? Still meeting her? Is snapchat easy to fall in to through watching porn, but then why would she be local?
I know it hints to that he’s seen her but I just can’t imagine he’d do that. I obviously hate the idea of it and hoping someone can offer a reasonable explanation? Thanks for any advice.

Don't know about snap chat, but I joined Twitter and about 10 local people like that followed me in the first day.

Can you make your profile private?

Ask him.

He's your husband - ask him

No idea about the snap chat bit, but has he ever expressed a desire to stir things up in the bedroom?

Facebook sells local contacts to businesses, so it wouldn't surprise me if snap chat did the same.

Tell him if he wants to be spanked like a naughty boy all he needs to do is ask you. But yes, he has more than likely seen her. Hubby has a kink that he is more than likely to embarrassed to discuss with you. I hope it is not a gross one.

It’s interesting that you say she has contacted him. How do you know he didn’t contact her?

It's not usual to get random adds on snapchat; but it's not unheard of either.

Did you reject the request? If it's still there; it'll tell you whether she found him through search/his phone number/mutual contacts; but that info disappears when the request is viewed.

Dunno how Snapchat works but on Instagram and Twitter every fucker with a diet plan/shakes/miracle solution and eleventybillion gym selfies wants to connect with me.

Rude. 😡

(Might not be him)...

People add people at random in the hopes of generating some lucky business, calm down

Snapchat will give a suggested friends list of people local or people who have friends in common so she's probably added him from that

If she added him then, like others have said, it is probably innocent.

I always get random people adding me on snapchat so I wouldn't worry about it, personally.

I’m not very familiar with how Snapchat works but he’s deleted the ap now. He’s deleted a lot of aps as he was wasting time on them, news ones etc also. We were in the car when it flashed up and it said something like following you/friended you. I haven’t asked him as thought if I did that and there was something dodgy going on he’d have a lie prepared so I wanted to understand how it worked before I questioned him. I did have a little snoop on his phone, which he’s usually quite guarded about, but didn’t find anything untoward. As I say it’s quite out of character to think he’d actually go and see someone. Not inconceivable that he’d watch something a bit naughty online though? I hate the idea of a webcam though!

It sounds perfectly innocent then.

Maybe it's time to spice things up a bit, iyswim.

I am friends with a dominatrix.

I do not want her to spank me, nor anything else sexual. She’s a friend of a friend and I didn’t know how she earned money for 18 months of random nights out - but actually she’s a really funny woman with a good heart. I’d be more worried a partner would fall for her genuine lovely personality and great looks rather than the services she supplies.

It’s probably a local ad though and they request to everyone...

She was in his (phone / email) contacts?

She was in his contacts!?
That’s what I was worried about!!
If she was she’s not now.
General consensus seems to be not to worry then. Thank you