Hi all, bit of a long story, I apologize in advance. I have been married 10 years and I have a son who is marvelous. I was diagnosed with cancer early last year and have been through the whole treatment of an operation, chemo, radio therapy and hormone therapy. I have also had two other operations for a severe chronic condition in the past 4 years. My cancer was only discovered after my husband forced me to go for testing (I had no symptoms) and he came with me to each of the 16 chemo session. I have finally finished my treatment only to be confronted by a husband who now just wants to go out and have fun, just not with me! I am left at home to do homework and the Home stuff while he goes for weekends away ( sometimes with people he hardly knows) and is busy spending the money in our joint account, now has a code on his phone and acts helpless and broken then aggressive and unkind towards me. We have been going to conselling for months, but I now feel this is a waste of time and effort as we no longer seem able to communicate. I feel so sad as surely this should be the time to rebuild our lives and thrive, but instead we are bogged down with these pointless issues. We live in a foreign country which doesn’t help matter. My husband wanted to move out until he discovered this is called abandonment under the local law and would jeopardize his share of the house! Am so down about this sorry State of affairs, do you have any advice?