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had row with dh and he wont tlak to me now dont know what to do.

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cantstopcrying · 05/06/2007 15:55

we ahve been getting on ok after he had an affair. He keeps walking out after we row and other night he didnt come home at all and i went mad. iknow his no longer cheating. but he wont even speak to me i phoned earlier and one of the guys who works fo rhim answeered asking who i was and when i said he said dh wasnt there they were in the pub and he'd just left. ( for one he wouldnt leave his phone anywhere) then this guy started laughing and said no his up the scaffolding i will get him to call you back. I have no idea who i was talking to but i text dh and he wont answer me. We are both under stress our ds has a big op next month. But i cant stop crying feel a complete wreck and so alone. I have no rl friends to talk to and no close family. i just dont know what to do

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Raggydoll · 05/06/2007 16:01

its hard to know what to say with so little background but just from the op i would say you're better off without bhim.

FluffyMummy123 · 05/06/2007 16:02

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lulumama · 05/06/2007 16:03

well, use this space to think about what you want for you and your children

if he won;t communicate, you are going to struggle

make some decisions about what is best for you, he is clearly not thinking of you and the children

tinymum · 05/06/2007 16:04

Sorry this is happening to you.

But I agree with the others, sounds like he is making a fool of you. Grit your teeth and kick him to the kerb. If he has cheated on you he should be doing all he can to make it up to you not taking the piss.

Budababe · 05/06/2007 16:06

How immature of him.

Ignore him. Easier said than done I know.

And decide if you really want him in your life. He cheated on you and you appear to have forgiven him. In which case he should be VERY contactable. Would he have cheated on you and now be treating you like this if he respected you?

cantstopcrying · 05/06/2007 16:15

i know his treating me badly and acting childish but how do you let go?

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tinymum · 05/06/2007 16:16

It takes a hell of alot of strength but you will feel better for it in the long run.

FluffyMummy123 · 05/06/2007 16:16

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cantstopcrying · 05/06/2007 16:17

he is acting like one and completely selfish.

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FluffyMummy123 · 05/06/2007 16:18

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