Hi Everyone ^
This may be about of a long post!
Me and my ex partner split up a few months ago- we have 2 beautiful children together. Unfortunately I feel the breakdown of my relationship with his family contributed to us splitting up- his mum became very bitter at the fact I'd spend more time with my mum than I did with her, which is ridiculous. I was then getting terrible Facebook posts about me, and nasty messages each weekend after she'd had a drink.
Anyway, me and my ex are very up and down- I have tried and tried to keep things civil for the children but he just can't seem to do it. I've warned him time and time again that this is his final chance and he keeps guilt tripping me into 'another chance'.
Today was the final straw when he called me a ''fat dumb c**t'' in front of my children, who are only 1 and 3. I instantly said 'look at how you're talking to me in front of your children' and he said ''it's true. Your mum is fat'
This bad mood triggered for almost no reason, and scared my boy to the point of tears.
He has said he wants to take the children out tomorrow but my son really doesn't want to go, but I know that if I tell him my son doesn't want to go he will just make my life hell and say I'm stopping him from seeing the children (which isn't true).
I've spoken to my cousin who is studying psychology and she said he's showing signs of narcissistic behaviour, which I agree with.
How can I persuade him to get help? I can't go on like this
Tia^