I need some advice. My partner of a year has his mum live with him cause he husband left her a year ago and is devastated which I've always been sympathetic of. She helps with his daughter dropping her to school etc. Lately i have found that it seems to me she wants to be more of a girlfriend to her son rather than a mother. She always seems to be in competition with me, the other day she messaged to say she brought him new sheets and was booking him for a facial, another time telling me about all these trips they have organised together which never happened or was even spoken about. She seems to mother him alot and he is 32. I'm starting to become annoyed by it and feel its a massive turn off. How do i approach my partner in telling him that his mum needs to start having her own life and how can I feel like this relationship is going somewhere when his mum is so involved?