So you had a brief flight no with this guy, was total sexual chemistry and I really fancied him but it was just a fling I knew that and he has massive issue and is everything that don’t need in a man. Over the few months I was sleeping with him I met his mate. This mate is very different to the fling guy and if anything actually treated me better he was the one walking me home when it was dark and the one moving me out of harms way when a fight broke out in a pub we were in etc.
So me and fling guy fizzled our few months ago, no big deal it was what it was but last few days this mate has been chatting to me slot over social media and I think that he may soon ask me out.
Firstly would it be weird of me to consider a date with him because of fling guy (I don’t think he would care to be honest, since found out he was seeing others while seeing me)
And also while I like this guy and can see lots of good qualities that I’m looking for I can’t say definitely if I’m attracted to him and at present not sure I would want to have sex with him, is this something that could grow
In the past I usually go for the sexual chemistry guy and it sweats ends badly rather than the good guy