Seperated 2 years. 2 young kids. Ex is a PITA everything still has to be on his terms. Court agreed contact - sees them most weekends but has cancelled his two week visitation - won’t tell me why, aparantly none of my business. He went on holiday on his birthday and Father’s Day despite court agreement that he would see them. He spends most of the time with them ripping into my family/discussing my family with his sister infront of our kids. He spent the last 5 years of our marriage slagging me off to his sister at every opportunity. I let him see the kids whenever he wants despite the court agreement because I thought it was better for the kids as they wanted to see him.
I try to let al, this go when the kids tell me about it - downplaying it and putting the record straight when I can.
I really have had enough. I am thinking of saying no to any non-court agreed contact as I just end up feeling crap.
Not sure what I expect you to say to me. Not sure what advice I would give to someone who said the above, it seems so trivial.
There has been emotional and financial abuse in the past and I left him the first time he hurt me. Trying not to drip feed.