recently I've noticed my partner become very distant from me, we've been together for 3 years and we broke up for about a month but since then we've gotten back together, reasons why we broke up where because he was doing things that hurt me and wasn't spending enough time with me and even when I asked him about it he promised he would change but never did so I had to end it. When we broke up it was devastating and he started speaking to me differently actually trying to spend more time with me but I told him I would only get back if he was going to make me a priority as I wasn't before only when it suited him. Past couple of weeks he hasn't. Last weekend while drunk he stated that he can't wait to I meet someone who actually appreciates me. Now Idk what that actually means I haven't brought it up as I hate confrontation. But while he was sober he stated that when everybody realises that he only cares about 1 person and that's himself the better. I've taken that as though he doesn't care about me, all thoughts are going through my head, is he loosing interest? Is there someone else? If I try and sit him down and talk about these issues he turns nasty and tells me he doesnt have to deal with this s**t. I really don't want to give up again because if I do it will be the last time, idk what to do like do I withdraw myself completely? Or do I tell him that we are talking about this because it's driving me nuts. He makes me feel so small in this relationship I have no control. When it comes to the weekends I don't know what we are doing but if I know him he will be out clubbing with his friends. I hate this as he doesn't go home or doesn't contact me atal and is the reason we broke up in the first place. Any ideas or tips on what to do or what to say will be great. Thank you!!