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Original poster

I know I'm over reacting but...

10 replies

Mina1990 · 21/08/2018 22:06

Hi,

So met this guy and think I really must have fallen for him. Re-reading texts/messages and looking at his photos. But following zero effort from him during a conversation today - I've decided to stop contacting him and blocking his number and deleting him off FB.

I know I'm over reacting but I feel that I'm turning into a stalker haha!!! Sad Should I go ahead and just delete him of fb and block all contact so I don't get my feelings further twisted Confused

OP posts:
TokenGinger · 21/08/2018 22:11

Is this the same guy you posted about last night? The one who will be celebrating Eid with his family today so will have little interest in striking up conversation with someone he only recently met one?

I think I’d block him for his good because you’re being a little too intense too soon.

Original poster
Mina1990 · 21/08/2018 22:23

TokenGinger

He lives alone and he's back at home for sure...alone. I didn't mention this earlier but he actually complimented me a lot during the wedding we attended. He went as far as saying that I looked better than the bride. So I really thought there was something between us but never mind...

OP posts:
Putitallbehindme · 21/08/2018 22:24

Ah I’m really sorry, it’s so hard when you meet someone you instantly like but you don’t get the reaction back you wanted.

Who knows why you haven’t. I think if you are feeling tempted to keep messaging him then perhaps removing him from Facebook is a good idea.

Good luck and hope you meet someone lovely soon x

RosettaStoned · 21/08/2018 22:26

If a guy is genuinely interested he will let you know. If this guy isn't then yep stop wasting your time, you'll end up getting hurt in the long run.

Drop him and move Thanks

RosettaStoned · 21/08/2018 22:26

Gah move on* Smile

thecatsarecrazy · 22/08/2018 17:58

Don't block him but try to take a step back. Let him get in touch.

Myheartbelongsto · 22/08/2018 18:02

Not a nice thing to say you looked better than the bride to be honest.

When I first met my boyfriend he would be asking me when are you coming back as I was walking out of the door.

I didn't have to second guess anything. If he's interested he'll let you know.

Chocolatecoffeeaddict · 22/08/2018 18:11

End it with someone who makes you have doubts and don't sell yourself short. When they want you, you will not question it.

MMmomDD · 22/08/2018 18:18

OP - take a breath and relax....
You sound like a teenager.
And unless you are a teenager - this is more an issue with you then him.

Him being home alone changes nothing. Who knows why it seems to you that he put ‘zero effort’ into conversation
What does it even mean???
What did you expect - a sonnet???

Kennycalmit · 22/08/2018 18:54

OP you’re overthinking this

If he was interested he’d show it.

You barely know the guy and you’ve already posted 2 threads in 24 hours about him. In no way am I saying you can’t post, it just seems a little intense for someone you barely know.

I understand it’s hard when you like someone but I do feel you need to take a step back and chill

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