Ok so I’ve been with someone a few months now and we’ve developed a routine around his nightmare shift pattern. This probably sounds really silly but he went home a day early at the weekend because he was poorly and now on the only day and night we are going to get to spend together this week he wants to come to mine late and go home early the next day to relax! I’m really annoyed at this as we’ve hardly had any time together abd haven’t been intimate in the last fortnight. As a side note he has recently purchased a football channel subscription which I know is more than just a passing interest. I have a small child who he gets on great with him.
I feel like things are changing and I don’t like it and honestly can’t find the language to communicate this to him.
Any help or advice welcomes