When me and my partner found out we was expecting we was both over the moon everything seemed great... a couple of months later everything seemed to go down hill I lost my job and he left his due to rumours of him having an affair (didn't help we both worked at the same place ) after that they're was silly little secrets that I found out about and confronted him about since then he has tried to make a mends and has changed a lot but I can't seem to get it all out my head and I don't know why ... I don't believe he cheated but then it's still in the back of my mind all the time ... I don't think it helps that I feel really self conscious at the moment and don't feel attractive or anything no matter how much I try to has anyone else been through this I just feel as I'm looking for problems where there isn't any all the time