Please help

[Potter02]

Hi, i have 4 children, 2 from a previous relationship and 2 with my current partner. I’ve been with my current partner for 9 years, last weekend I went out with the girls and had a great night. On the way home we stopped for a takeaway and my friend started talking to a guy and him and his friend came back to my friends house after for a drink. When I was leaving he kissed me and I kissed him back. I just feel really confused and unsure what to do next. Me and my partner have had issues over the last year as I found out he was txting other women and even though he says there was nothing in it, he didn’t tell me about them. That is no excuse for what I have done, it’s just really not like me to do something like this. Any advice would appreciated

Personally I'd forget the passing kiss but sort out the relationship with your husband properly. It sounds pretty poor at the moment.

Honestly? Anyone can make a mistake once, but make it twice and it's all on you. So put the kiss but of your mind and forget about it, but not so far out of your mind that you ever forget how fucking shit you feel right now, because the memory of that will protect you in the future!

As for your relationship with your partner, you should probably see this as a sign that it needs more of your attention than you had previously realised... Immerse yourself in that.

Thanks for your replies. I think maybe I’m overthinking what it all means and it has made me question my relationship with my partner as I never thought I would do something like this.