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Left me while pregnant. Help :(

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Cakery · 19/08/2018 15:43

Also posted in pregnnacy. Basically my partners left me a week ago. I hoped he’d come home by now- he came over yesterday and said he needs more time to think.
I think he’s done.
I already have a little boy who’s 3.5 and I’m 27 weeks pregnant so this is my partners first baby.
He’s asked me to give him space but I just feel awful.
I have no appetite I can’t concentrate on anything I’m terrified and I’ve lost 6lb this week.
We’ve just been having little bickers and he’s said he isn’t happy- I’ve asked him to try and I know we can sort but I just feel so sad that he’s said he needs more time to think.
How do I get through this? When I was pregnant with my little boy my mum commited suicide. I was 6 months and it utterly broke me. I hate feeling This pain again and I have no one to talk to

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AlwaysSleepy1 · 19/08/2018 16:39

What an awful time for you. could it be an OW?

Can you be practical to keep you busy- get the nursery ready attend prenatal classes (swimming for example?) Do you have much family support?

Please try and focus on your baby and eat and drink well - both of your DC need you xx

Twentyonesecondstogo · 20/08/2018 14:04

Have you told your midwife

flyingsaucersherbet · 20/08/2018 14:11

Please tell your midwife. I was single when pregnant and so I know how hard it is, but my midwife was such a support.

Try and focus on practicalities. You need food honey, smoothies or soup if you don’t think you can manage anything else. Do your friends / family know?

Am thinking of you, for the record, my Ds is 6 now and we are an incredible team and very close. You will get through this Flowers

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