I've been in an on off relationship for 6 years with current partner, no kids, I have my own home, he doesn't live with me.
He has broken up with me in the past for no particular reason, suffers with mental health and would often go on weekend binges not really getting in contact. The last time I ended the relationship as it had been a 5 day bender without any contact, his mother even contacted the police. Anyway, I ended it, he crawled back explaining his behavior, he had not taken meds, lost a job and was struggling. Agreed to give it another go even though he said that during that time he had cheated on me. I struggled with this but accepted it on the basis of his mental health and having a bit of a breakdown. during our break he had booked a month long trip away as he was depressed Im not one to prevent someone doing something so that brings me to where I currently am - he has gone away it's been a week. He was constantly speaking to me first few days but now he has lost his phone and hasn't been in contact fort 4 days (rung his mother to tell her as he doesn't know my mobile number). I've heard nothing.
I clearly have a lot of trust issues and think the worst, am I being unreasonable cos he's lost his phone or is he doing this as a form of emotional abuse???