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Should I go on this date?

29 replies

Summerrose10 · 19/08/2018 07:37

It's a first date. I know the guy we went to school together but bumped into each other again at a wedding. My DM thinks he would be a good match for him but I'm not so sure.
He drinks quite alot which is the main thing that puts me off.

He went out Friday night and apparently didn't get in until the early hours. Last night he went out again. I then received a text saying "let's meet a 3, I'll pick you up and we can get a taxi and have a Sunday funday?"

Firstly Sunday funday?? Lol!
I also mentioned I needed to be back for my DS at 5pm when we were arranging to meet a few days ago. Even if I didn't need to be back for him I don't really want to go out on a first date and get really drunk. We were suppose to just be going to a little pub and having a quiet drink orginally.
Shall I go? Ìm not sure?

OP posts:
Summerrose10 · 19/08/2018 20:05

He knows I do though through social media

OP posts:
Baumederose · 19/08/2018 20:07

Just be honest. Say you think you aren't compatible due to different interests

Dennishoppersocks · 19/08/2018 20:13

Tell him straight “I think you drink too much for me.” Then he’s got some feedback on his behaviour.

Ruddygreattiger2016 · 19/08/2018 21:22

What Dennis said, tell him in no uncertain terms that his level of drinking is not acceptable for you and wish him all the best.

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