my husband and I have two babes aged 5 and 8 we have always had a up and down relationship but he is emotionally abuse calls me names, belittles me and is basically a narcissist, and the lies just slip out of his mouth. He is veru good at putting on im a greaty guy act and saves all his unpleasantness for me, saying that he is a good dad and loves his kids, I have two concerns he wants a 50/50 , does this arrangement work ?im sure its mostly because he wants to see his kids but also I know him well and I think he thinks that if I get the kids more than that ill get 50%of all assets and he wont have to pay maintance, he has basically said why is it you deserve these things you haven't worked your lazy etc I have though always worked 20-25 hours a week
my other concern is that he wont keep up with the arrangement and its all about control I would love some advice or has anyone got any experience of this? xx