Part two:

[Carlyxox]

Further to my other post, I've ended my long term affair with a married guy. My heart is absolutely shattered.
But he's got really nasty, threatening me, threatening if I ever get into another relationship he'll ruin it, saying I'll never meet another guy like him, I've never ever seen this side to him I'm very concerned.
Then he has moments of being nice & begging for me back it's really hard to keep saying no when I want him so much

Please have some respect for yourself.

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you in such a way?

And who treats someone he has made vows to that way as well?

Block block block on everything.

The OP has found respect for herself ... his vows are not really her problem ... he made them .. she didn't !!!!!.... really hope you haven't gone back to him OP .. xx

Sadly there are many guys like him. Look he was always a liar and a cheat and now he has shown a controlling bullying side to his personality.

You have done the right thing and you need to stay away. Well away. There is so much more to life than wasting yours on someone like this.

If this saggy arsed wrinkly balled creep cared for you in the slightest ( which I'm guessing you are hoping he does right ) He would let you go find someone who is 'available' as he knows he isn't. Plus taking into consideration the age gap, both of you if you have any common sense should know this will not work! Wife or no wife!
So by displaying his true colours of the threats etc he's just pissed that he won't be getting any more leg over from the hot young fancy thing.

If you want rid of him for good ( which for your sanity I hope you do ) if he continues these threats, keep the texts & threaten to report him to the police for harassment.... as I'm sure the last thing he will want is wifey opening the door to a police visit.

Learn from this, move on & look for guys your pens age whom you have things in common with.

You are a young woman & he is a manipulative old man who just wants to take advantage of you.

Glad him into sending the threats via text op, he will shit himself once you mention the police.

I reported an ex to the police for similar behaviour & they took it seriously & he backed off once I told him police had been informed.

You did the right thing to leave him. He sounds very manipulative to you.