Did I do the right thing?

[Summerrose10]

I think I did but I just feel rubbish.
Been dating a guy for 2 months. Knew of him before. We got on really well. However had split from ex a few months before and they have a young child. A few people had mentioned they were very on and off. I gave it a chance and things were going good. He went away and came back. Weren't as chatty and I saw him yesterday. Orginally suppose to be going out. Then he wanted to stay in and watch a film. Half way through the night he started saying some sexual things and twisting my words to have more sexual meanings. I had not slept with him and I think that's what he was expecting. Had not really heard from him today so I text and said let's leave it. His reply was "you getting grumpy I've been busy. Now driving home" I just said let's call it a day. I feel you and ex have unfinished business. Instead of reassurance he went off on one. Now I feel rubbish and feel was I right saying that? Should I have just left it and not said nothing. Feel lonely again :(

What gave you the impression he had unfinished business?

Drama with his ex. Her blocking him because he didn't want her at a family party. Then she went in the end. Stopping him seeing his kid if he does something she doesn't like. Heard from more than one person they are off and on

You were U to raise his (alleged) issues with his ex by text, but it sounds like he wasn’t that into you, otherwise he’d have wanted to see you to sort it out.

If he kicked off then take it as a red flag and be done is my advice

He text and said sorry for being a knob he's tired and stressed. Apparently been arguing with the ex as she wrote a contact for him so he says. Still no reassurance though. Just feels like alot of drama

The situation with access to his DC sounds very difficult, so until that’s resolved, eg legally, there is bound to be a lot of “drama” around that.

He normally has his DS every weekend. So I don't know why all of a sudden it's becoming a problem and why she is kicking off.

Btw I'm not concerned with the sorting seeing his child. I understand that as I have a DS myself. I'm just concerned that people have told me their relationship is very on and off. I don't want to like him then him tell me he's back together with her