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Would you forgive boyfriend for cheating and giving you chlamydia 2 months in?

28 replies

sugarlips2015 · 14/08/2018 13:01

Wondered what people's opinions were on this...

inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/wellbeing/my-boyfriend-cheated-and-gave-me-chlamydia-and-its-made-us-closer/

OP posts:
Ignoramusgiganticus · 14/08/2018 13:02

Nope!

expatinspain · 14/08/2018 13:06

No

AveABanana · 14/08/2018 13:06

God she sounds gullible. Her self esteem must be in the gutter.l to think she deserves him.

doodlejump1980 · 14/08/2018 13:08

Hell no!

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 14/08/2018 13:27

Not a chance.

TheSecondMrsAshwell · 14/08/2018 13:34

I would forgive his cold corpse as it rotted in the grave.

Not.

hellsbellsmelons · 14/08/2018 13:41

WTF would you forgive that?
Unfortunately there are a lot of women out there who would almost 'sacrifice their soul' to keep hold of a 'MAN'!!!
It makes me very very sad.

VetOnCall · 14/08/2018 13:44

Ugh, not in a million years. If him and his weak excuses and manky cock are the best she thinks she can do then good luck to her. I wouldn't forgive someone for cheating on me at any stage even without the STI.

Makesmilingyourbesthobby · 14/08/2018 13:57

I certainly wouldn't forgive him, but know there is great deal of men whom have 'cheated' at the early stages of a relationship and kept it from they partner only for it to come out a couple of years down the line & have never done it since, me i don't get why they do it they have committed to being with one person but my guess is it takes a lot longer for these men to fully commit to a relationship despite voicing they are committed

PatchworkElmer · 14/08/2018 13:58

No. Way.

BruceAndNosh · 14/08/2018 14:01

I’d trusted him with my heart and my vagina

So romantic

Pappybear · 14/08/2018 14:03

Nah mate

Hissy · 14/08/2018 14:19

he only told her because of the chlamydia. FACT

AnyFucker · 14/08/2018 14:23

That "article" is a pile of melodramatic crap

HuckfromScandal · 14/08/2018 14:26

What a fool she is

MrsST · 14/08/2018 14:39

All sounds a bit made up to me.

BitchQueen90 · 14/08/2018 14:44

I wouldn't forgive cheating at any stage of a relationship, be it 2 months or 20 years!

HoldingOutForAutumn · 14/08/2018 15:08

I’d trusted him with my heart and my vagina

🤢🤢🤢

B00kworm86 · 14/08/2018 15:11

Urgh! No! You're way better than that OP!

cakecakecheese · 14/08/2018 15:15

God no. Also what a weird article, she lost 10lbs, they baked a cake Confused

Notmyrealname85 · 14/08/2018 15:15

No I would call that a two month relationship that I used to have! No way would you keep him

Notmyrealname85 · 14/08/2018 15:17

Also anyone who says fidelity is important.... that’s a red flag for me.

Fidelity should be a given, not anything to emphasise. The only bf I had who went on about it - well turns out he cheated on me a LOT!

viques · 14/08/2018 15:22

Ah, so sweet, what's the old saying? Something like

" the couple who STD together stay together"

Bananalanacake · 14/08/2018 16:09

Only if he let me pour boiling water over it to sterilize it.

SandyY2K · 14/08/2018 17:09

Not in a million years. I wouldn't forgive my DH and father of my DC, talk less of just a BF...of 2 months for that matter.

I've got more self worth than that.