Hi all. Firstly I'm pregnant and might be totally hormonal which is why I'm not sure who is the weird one here.
A few months ago OH started a new job all was well. This girl started too and he kept complaining about her... a lot. So much so that she seemed to be in every conversation. Eventually what he told me about was getting less complaining and more banter between the 2 of them.
I was a little jealous but knew he would never do anything and I was mostly jealous because she was spending a lot more time with him than I was.
Anyway because she was in our relationship daily because of every conversation seemed to be involving her ...mostly negatively in fairness... I asked him to please not mention her too much anymore and leave work at work. We'd have work chats for a few minutes after work but nothing afterwards.
Today I seen them laughing and chatting and I aparently had my sulky lip on.
I was a tiny bit jealous but I knew it's more hormones than anything. Because of my lip... it all blew up and he left...
Everything went so well the last few weeks but now thinking back I did ask him a few times if he had lost intimate interest in me as he used to be sex mad but had barely touched me every 2 weeks and only if I started. The romance left a bit too but he was still lovely and cuddly towards me.
Now I think maybe I was a bit jealous because of all these things together... I shouldn't have let it get out of hand but I've had a bad day and kinda let everything out on him. It's not nice I know. But usually he'd be very understanding and hug me and we'd have a talk and all would be well.
Its never been about jealousy before.
Anyway he thinks it's all to do with jealousy which it doesn't. It was just a lip. Nothing more.
But he actually just packed and left me... 7 months pregnant.
I'm in shock. Maybe I'm horrible when I'm pregnant. .. quite possibly...
What do you think?
Please don't hammer me... I'm not in the best state of mind.