Is sexting classed as cheating..... if so should I leave

[Fightflighticantseethelight]

My girlfriend is a compulsive liar that is a 100% fact , I have learnt to live with but I know she is messaging other men or should I say 1 other guy in particular, I've asked her if she is up anything ....... which we all know the reply NO , but I have evidence and and can prove she lies to me daily...... saying that the messages she has been sending she lies daily to the other guy. I'm purely staying with her because of our son, which I know he's at an age he won't understand why mummy and daddy have split up. I feel me knowing she lies daily and believes her lies is stopping me love her.

I would really appreciate some help from women on this as I am a very private person and don't normally tell my busy to anyone........ I feel and seen very good reviews about this site for people telling there issues and whether it's a good or bad comment I would love to here.

Thanks

Fight flight I can't see the light

Well to update you all... I have taking all the advice given and now free, I can't remember who it was to say print this thread out and show my now ex, I explained to my son what daddy's doing, it was hard breaking to hear him say " don't you love me anymore" . Which we all know I told him I love him more then life itself, I gladly have him this week as I'm off work and he is off school, the ex is slagging me off at her mums house.

But only posting this to express my massive thanks for and to everyone for the help and advice, I feel as I'm off death row..... seriously. I feel free.

I can not thank you all enough for your replies.

I've done it

@Fightflighticantseethelight

You’ve done a very brave thing. Lots of luck to you

I can't believe I've done it myself .......I never really knew what the saying "a massive weight lifted off my shoulders" meant but I totally 100% understand now.

I can not thank you all enough for the replies and kicking my arse in to gear and also removing the blinkers I've had on

When I look at it now, I'm so glad I've posted and the reviews about this site are true.

I feel so much happier and it's only been 3 days

Thanks again all

Fight flight I've NOW seen the light

Well done
You deserve to be happy