HUSBAND ON DATING SITES

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This is the first time I've ever posted anything on a forum but really need some advice. Ive been with my husband for 17 years and married for 2. during this time I've caught him 6 different times on dating sites, recently caught again. I feel like its time to call it a day as only 8 months ago he was on them and it totally broke me but for the sake of my daughter i gave it another go but i told him if he went on them again it would be over for good. That obviously didn't stop him, he says he's never met up with any but from the messages I've seen he's planned to meet them. I feel totally worthless, has anyone else gone through this.

6 times and you've stayed? You’ve made yourself look like a doormat so that’s how he is treating you.

Your stay anyway so why would he stop? Like he believes for a second you’d actually leave as you’ve stayed 6 times!

He's still doing it now because there have been no consequences when he's done it in the past. In his view you 'allow' it by being passive and just putting up with it.

Get screenshots if you can. And make plans to divorce. Staying for your daughters sake is pointless if she hates him and knows you're unhappy. Surely a single, happier Mum would be better for her?

Be brave and bite the bullet. Get some legal advice and start making plans.