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Please help me

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blackheartdarksoul · 09/08/2018 21:02

I think I might have posted in the wrong part so I apologise.

Huge back story, years of domestic violence, rape, was told I probably had Stockholm syndrome etc...

Ex partner went to prison for his crimes, only the ones where witnesses came forward. I didn't want to speak to anyone so I went into myself and refused to speak to police and other agencies.

I could have lost my kids, I now I'm scum for that but at the time I was still mentally under his control and not used to speaking out.

He's now working in my area but he lives 60 miles away. He works a couple of streets away and I'm frightened. I have restraining orders in place but I'm still scared.

I need to leave the area but I don't know who to contact or how to go about it. I'm not very clever and I haven't had to be an adult for a long time but now I have to for my kids.

Please help me

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Ellie56 · 09/08/2018 21:06

Phone Women's Aid 0808 2000 247.

You may have to keep ringing though a they are very busy.

blackheartdarksoul · 10/08/2018 12:07

I've tried them but they're constantly engaged

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NotTheFordType · 10/08/2018 12:09

Are you working? Are you working for a large organisation which offers legal advice and counselling?

cakecakecheese · 10/08/2018 12:54

Email if you can't get through via the phone [email protected]

Hidingtonothing · 10/08/2018 13:38

If you scroll down this page www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic-abuse-directory/ til you get to ‘search by region or local authority’ and enter your town it will give you details of local services. They’re not always open 24 hours but it’s usually easier to get through than the national number Flowers

blackheartdarksoul · 10/08/2018 15:25

Thank you Thanks

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