It started out with me getting worried that I'd developed a strong interest in someone else. I posted on mn and unfortunately DH found the post in the google bar and didn't tell me. It seemed to give him the green light to have an intense relationship with someone else.
We are now trying to figure out our problems. This has all happened whilst we were in temp accommodation and now need to find something more permanent. DH feels that we need that stability in order to make such a fundamental decision. However, I'm worried we take on the financial commitment of a new flat which won't give us much flexibility if things don't work out.
I still get on well with DH as we've always been good friends and go back a long way. However, I find it hard to imagine that we can get our sex life back on track as I can't help but think he has this other woman in mind. Meanwhile, I'm feeling like I'd just love to have some tenderness and intimacy in my life.
Am I being too greedy? Should I just try and bob along with DH? I know counselling is a possibility but feel resistant to hearing all about this other woman when I don't really want to know.
Please help! Sorry it's long...