Really got to get over my ex - feeling sad

[Eesha]

I've posted a few times about my ex and I splitting due to his alcoholism and abusive manner as a result. He literally went online plus met another from work so was seeing several people very quickly and rushed into various relationships. I just feel very easily replaced. I didn't want him to pine but may be at least attempt to fix himself and instead he has women fawning over him and having sex, whereas I'm just with my kids. Usually I'm ok but sometimes I see or hear things from him which makes it obvious and it really hurts. How can I get over this feeling, I'm trying so hard.

Stop being so hard on yourself. How long have you been separated? You are going to have good and bad days when you hear things you don't want to. Give it time and if you want to scream and cry do it! Better out than in. Don't speak to him at all unless it's regarding the children.

Part of me thinks I need to see someone else and have a fling, but that isn't really me naturally and also I don't get out very much due to childcare issues. It just hurts he can move on so quickly whereas I'm with no one. Even the thought of meeting someone else fills me with dread yet he is right out there