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6 months pregnant & relationship going down hill

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questionsquestions101 · 07/08/2018 22:21

I'm six months pregnant and partner lives 2 hour flight away, been together 8 months. We see each other regularly and plan will be to move once baby is born, can't happen before due to logistical matters. We've just spent last four days together and now really questioning the relationship because of various reasons (which I won't go into) but a couple of smaller comments he made saying; 1) my belly gets in the way of sex; 2) said he was going to give me a fish kiss (which I didn't understand, he then said it meant oral sex and it was a joke, which I didn't find funny, I'd just had shower and knew I didn't smell); 3) I showed him a picture of friend 38 weeks pregnant with twins and he said she has fat face; 4) last night together for a while and he wanted to watch football. I was over the night by this stage and just went to bed. He has been wonderful and did go out of his way to make sure we had a nice time but I can't stand all the obnoxious comments. I'm not sure if it's me being overly sensitive at moment or that I'm beginning to realise he's a dick - what do you think of these comments are they big deals or let them go ?

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Branleuse · 08/08/2018 12:56

There are loads of ways to have fun pregnancy sex without tummy getting in the way. Maybe hes sexually unimaginative to boot?

AnoukSpirit · 08/08/2018 14:47

He said that I overreact and don't see funny side .

Red flag.

Bin.

trojanpony · 08/08/2018 16:45

I'm six months pregnant and partner lives 2 hour flight away, been together 8 months

You would be silly not to be questioning this “relationship”.
I would not be flying or moving away from any support network to be with this man. If he is moving to where you live - great/fine, whatever. If he wants you to move away from your family - Fuck. That. Shit.

You only need to read through of a handful of the debris of broken and messed up relationships on here to know this is excellent advice. You’re welcome.

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