Hi, I am 32 years old, have been married for 2 years. Was dating my husband for 2 years before marriage on long distance relationship. Before me he hasn't had any long-term relationship. Suddenly after almost two years of marriage our sex disappeared, no intimacy for 2 months now. When I asked why, he said he has been watching porn every morning when I left house for work and wanking. Any of my questions why so often and why not having sex with me - he refuses to answer and gets angry. I knew, he told me when we just moved in together, he used to wank every evening before bed as he thought it helped him fall asleep. Then he said he stopped doing that. He used to wank without any porn or anything and now when I discovered he is doing this every morning and several times on weekends, I feel like crap as it's a bit hurting as he must be fantasizing about daily images of girls he is getting from everyday life (he used to always say hates porn he says and not watching it). I don't mind him wanking but not that often, not in lieu of sex with me and not whilst thinking of real girls he can see at work, on the street etc - red flag as that can happen. I feel like I really need to talk to someone and get advice. Please help.