I reconnected with a chap I worked with when I was 16, he was 24 (I'm now 54), I fancied the pants off him and he used to make my heart skip when I saw him. We went on a few dates and spent a couple of days together . I had an idea he had a gf back then but wasn't sure and was so swept away by him that I sort of ignored it anyway.
Fast forward to now , I drove to his at the weekend and we chatted non stop, he's still got the same cheeky way about him. He asked if I wanted to stay over and I said no thankyou. He then kept on and on talking about how nice it would be to cuddle and how he wanted to kiss me etc , I said it was all a bit full on for me . I sat in an armchair , he knelt in front of me with his hands on the arms of the chair , so I was somewhat imprisoned and kept on talking about cuddling , sayinghow much he likes me still . I literally leant as far back as I could , pulled a face and said its just not going to happen . I drove home soon after , during which time he called me on my mobile ( the phone answers automatically so I spoke to him briefly - I said I was busy the next few weekends with family stuff and he invited himself along !) . He called me yesterday and today , I've ignored them.
His behaviour was so off putting, I'm not going to see him again . I'm disappointed that a man of his age still has no respect for a woman and I want to tell him so. It's not me being frigid but the thought of being with another man now repulses me.