I've been single for around 5 years, after numerous crap relationships I decided to be more choosy about who I got with, I worked on my own self, my confidence, my career, finances etc and so now I am in a very independant position, I rent a lovely 3 bedroomed house and I have a decent car and a healthy bank account...I'm far from "loaded" but I'm comfortable, I wanted to be like this so that I never felt like I needed anyone again and it's been great so far.
Anyway recently I decided that I am ready to give another relationship a go, due to my work I don't get much chance to meet people so I joined an online dating site but it seems that there is nobody on there that I would want to be involved with.
I am looking for someone a bit older than me with a decent job (not bothered about the money but a decent job shows that he's motivated at least) and who wants to enjoy life...all I've come across is boring people! for instance one guy who who a uni lecturer but he didnt seem interested in anything, "had had enough of travelling" etc (travelling is important to me), another bloke who still lived with his parents...am I asking for too much? all I want is a normal independant bloke that I can have a laugh with, travel with etc...are all online things like this?