Feeling a bit abandowned by dh

[thegardener]

Just feeling a bit abandoned by dh after him going to more football matches, last weekend it was from 9-8.30pm now tonight he's off to meet his friends and in a few weeks i'll be taking ds home early from a wedding while he stays till the end & then kips round him folks house(it is his friends wedding, so don't mind really)but just feel like i'm being abandoned.
I know he's not one of these men who goes out all the time and we all do need our own bit of space, i occasionally go out with my friends in the evenings or if dh has gone to the football i have invited them round.

Does anyone else feel like this? Right now i feel like he's being a single teenager

it doesn't sound as though this is happening very often - ok so last weekend was a long day, but one evening this week and one evening in a few weeks time doesn't sound very OTT. Not enough to really feel 'abandoned' - a very strong word. Do you feel he is being unreasonable, or that you don;t get the same chances for some time out, or do you feel there is something a bit deeper going on?

It's not a lot but compared to your it seems like it is. Is there a regular thing yo could go to each week that would get you out of the house and give you something to look forward to/meet 'non-baby/kiddy' people?

finding something for me to do once a week sounds good. I suppose that's why i'm feeling a bit fed up with dh.

It would be nice to find something that isn't too expensive that i could do in the evenings. Go swimming with family @ weekends so don't really want to go again.

Has anyone got any ideas?