I started a new job recently and as a part of my training I had a week away. This week was spent with a male colleague who works in the same area. We spent a lot of time together, at work and evening meals.
Half-way through the week he started to become very flirty, very over-friendly. At first, in all honesty, I was flattered by the attention and would laugh the comments off... but since returning from the trip, the comments have become more and more flirtatious. I am now getting messages to my phone. Often, the messages are general chit-chat about how the day is going/ work related things but every now and again they become too flirty for me to be comfortable. I have replied with emojis and changed the subject but I'm worried he thinks I am interested?!
My colleague is single, and I am happily married, as I have told him, but this has not changed anything. I am worried that I have let it get too far but I don't know how to stop it now. I love my job and don't want this to effect work/ the future of my job at all! I also don't want my husband to think I want any of this. Any advice?