I want to leave my husband but have nowhere to go and no money

[30years]

I have been with my husband for 32 years, we have 3 grown up children with one still living at home.
I always had a feeling that he was a cheat but never the proof until about 8 years ago when he had been on my daughters laptop and didn’t delete the history. The sites he had been on were disgusting and he was even having a relationship with a woman from one of the sites. Well we talked and talked and decided that he would stop looking at these sites and finish the relationship he was having, stupid me believed all this but the trust was never there.
Yesterday I found out all of this was still going on. I want out this time i will never trust of believe him again.
Who do I turn to for help as I have no money and nowhere to go ?

[Thingsdogetbetter]

Zombie

[Chaley]

I’ve been with my husband for 25 yrs had two children together.
He has recently met a new friend who he is acting like Peter Pan with! Together constantly lying of their whereabouts for each other etc.
I’ve asked where they go to everyday, apparently none of my business?
I work hard but am on a low wage,the house is solely in his name and he tells me it’s all his.
I recently lost my mum which has been heart breaking with no support either.
I so want out but don’t know how to do it as my income is not enough to rent a property.
Please any advise?

[willowmelangell]

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[Kitty389]

Hi I’m in need of some guidance
ive got a nearly 2 year old daughter and Im wanting to leave a long term relationship it’s causing my mental health to go really downhill and he don’t care at all.
So since the start of this relationship there has been multiple lies and hiding/deleting things. I’ve always ended up finding the truth and he apologises makes all the excuses under the sun and silly me gives chance after chance. It’s been from searching other women’s facebooks to lying about working with women in a previous job. And all sorts of other lies or hiding things in between up till now even.
it’s at the point when something comes up or I’m upset he goes to bed and goes to sleep calls me pathetic and a cry baby and goes not a care in the world or a word said after I’m left to cry myself to sleep basically.
im in a situation where we rent a house together I only work bank as and when as I’m a full time stay at home mum basically and all money goes into a joint account so im stuck when it comes to money and a house. I don’t want to just leave and scree things up for my daughter I can’t afford to leave or rent this house alone. I don’t really have any family to go to either so I feel trapped and isolated. Please if anyone has any form of support or know where I can go to get help then let me know I’m so low and I feel so bad for my daughter…

[Zemw]

@Kitty389 please make your own thread, you can copy and paste it over.

[Kitty389]

I just realised thought that was my own thanks